Dex. (they/them) Just graduated from JMU. 22 and taken. Always been the weird kid, but I own it. Pretty dorky. Music junkie. Rugger. All kindsa queer. Crazy. Chill. Hopeless romantic. Secretly a really huge softy.
Day 30: Where do you see your future going with him/her?
I will marry her someday. <3
Day 29: When will you see her/him next?
I don’t know…
Day 28: If you could have him/her with you physically for the next 5 hours, what would you do?
Cuddle. I can never get enough of that. We would probably just sit in bed and watch the LWord, talk, give each other backrubs, cuddle and have sex haha.
Day 27: If you had the money/time/connections/whatever to get him/her any gift in the world, what would it be?
A backpacking trip around Europe together. :)
Day 26: Sweetest thing he/she has done for you.
She’s listened to me bitch and whine about my gender issues, and asked me questions when she doesn’t understand. She does everything she can to make me feel as comfortable as possible and sometimes calls me her “country boy.” I always feel safe with her and I she lets me have the freedom to figure myself out, the freedom that I’ve never had with anyone else in the world.
Day 25: One thing that he/she does that pisses you off (even if that smile while get you every time)
Well it doesn’t really piss me off because I know she needs to sometimes, but I don’t like that Emma smokes. She tries not to when she’s with me though.
Day 24: Describe him/her physically and emotionally/personality-wise
Physically: little enough that I can pick her up and carry her places whenever I want, light brown wavy hair, round face, gorgeous eyes that change colors depending on the day, infectious smile, broad shoulders, perfect boobs, ass that I literally cannot not stare at, bigger feet than me despite her height.
Personality: independent, passionate, one of the strongest people I know, anxious, super affectionate, genuine, cares a lot, unsure, silly, wise, intelligent, reliable, trustworthy, easy to talk to, really listens, distractable, damaged, growing constantly, involved, honest, open (at least with me), sassy, not afraid to stand up for what she believes in.
She’s not perfect, but she’s perfect for me.
Day 23: Do you have a song? Which one is it? (if you don’t, then what is something that always reminds you of him/her)
Of course. :) I Must Be Dreaming - The Maine
Day 22: Share something cute. (A story, something either of you have done, a song, memory, wish, dream)
One time, when I went to visit Emma, we went out to this resteraunt a few blocks from her house. When the waitress came over to take our order, we were talking and holding hands on top of the table. She was basically ecstatic: “Oh cute, yall are holdin’ hands!” We both laughed and blushed. When she came back to get our dessert orders later, it was, “Ooh look, yall are holdin’ hands again!” By the end of the meal, she had told us all about how she was going to hit on this new waitress there soon (she just had to wait for the right moment), and she had given us free homemade pop-tarts to take home.
Basically, we’re adorable and people are jealous.
Day 21: Give us a little insight (as much as you’re comfortable) on your sex life (either with this person physically, or your general history, or over the phone ha, whatever you want)
Oh boy… Well there’s a lot of it… I’m not comfortable with sharing too much on the interwebs, but it is mindblowing, and it somehow gets better every time. I honestly don’t even know how to put the experience into words. Simply amazing.
Day 20: Is there something you regret? (either about the relationship, or something you have done)
There’s nothing I regret about our relationship, and nothing that I regret in my life, because everything I’ve done and gone through has made me who I am now.
Day 19: I know there’s not one thing, but choose one of your favourite things to hear her/him say.
Day 17: Favourite love (LDR or not) quote?
“The greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return.”
Day 16: Favourite love (LDR or not) movie?
Moulin Rouge. Hands down.